My firsthand experience of YOU, was as an overly flirtatious, somewhat tempestuous and ‘predatory female’. The distraction you ‘set in motion’ lead to many other distractions… Our a 7.5 yr relationship became untenable and our much hoped for and mutually planned, little baby boy was abandoned by his father. 

Whilst you like to flirt, have fun, look sexy and be adored – and are actively encouraged to do so by our culture and our society (men!), there are partners, wives, mothers and children that get despised, bullied, hated, hurt, lost and abandoned… 

I remember vividly sending you an impassioned email, asking to stay away from my partner. You had invited him to dinner to meet your parents, obviously I was out of your ambitious equation. Sometimes even so called ‘emotional affairs’ are far more damaging and deadly than real ones. 

I look at my little boy and I am happy, he is worth everything… all the pain, hurt and trauma of my ex’s juvenile distractions- mostly desperate, insecure and lonely women, needing constant attention and affirmation.

I know you will delete this, the past is easy to erase for some!

btw!

In arguments about you we used to call you ‘Nagasaki’, as in the nuclear bombs of Hiroshima and Nagasaki… He used to call you Nagasaki Bomb! 

Mission accomplished! (although some time back now…) He can be all yours, now and forever… to have and to drop.

; )