Sober Mercies by Heather Harpham Kopp

Synopsis:
Subtitled: How Love Caught Up with a Christian Drunk.

Review:
Sober Mercies is first and foremost an addiction memoir, showing the secrecy and the deception and the havoc wreaked by Heather Harpham Kopp’s need to drink as much alcohol as possible every single day.

What makes her story stand apart is that Kopp was (and still is) a professing Christian at the time of her addiction. She believed that alcoholism was only a sin problem, not an addiction or a disease, and so she resisted seeking help. She didn’t know why she couldn’t just repent her way out of her problem. She was editing books on Christian theology but wasn’t seeing her beliefs translate into her life at all. I think this is a common problem for all Christians, especially in the evangelical tradition. We have orthodoxy (“right doctrine”) but not orthopraxy (“right living”), and I think the relentless focus on individualism in popular evangelicalism is a big reason. We’re told that Christianity is a personal relationship with Jesus and so we get lost in our personal experience, instead of being taught that Christianity is first and foremost about what Jesus Christ did on the cross, vanquishing sin and making it possible for us to be right with God. As long as it’s all about us, we’re doomed to see how we fail every day. That’s what happened to Kopp. I wish she had spent more time showing how her perspective on God and herself changed because that’s where the magic in a believer’s life happens. She sort of rushed the ending and I wanted more because I she did a fantastic job getting me invested in her story.

Rapture Practice by Aaron Hartzler

Synopsis:
A sheltered young man realizes he needs to decide what he really believes in.

Review:
Aaron Hartzler is witty and perceptive, and Rapture Practice is an insider’s look at the wacky outskirts of evangelicalism. I didn’t stay very interested in the memoir aspect, mainly because as I’ve mentioned before I’m not crazy about the genre, but I did like the way Hartzler told his story. He’s a good writer, to be sure.

And the review would have been longer, but my site was hacked and I spent all my blogging time changing my password through the backend. As Henry on Oswald would say, it’s “time to go to bed.”

Does Jesus Really Love Me? by Jeff Chu

Synopsis:
Subtitled: A Gay Christian’s Pilgrimage in Search of God in America.

Review:
In the interest of full disclosure, I’ve met Jeff Chu on several occasions and am pretty sure at least one of them was a Thanksgiving potluck, so I read Does Jesus Really Love Me? with a bit of personal interest. The first compliment I’ll pay to the book is that I found it fascinating and riveting way beyond the mutual friends we share.

The second compliment I’ll pay is that this book is incredibly well-researched. I was amazed at the breadth of Chu’s scope, and how successfully he pulled off a detailed look at all the ways that “gay” and “Christian” end up in the same sentence, from the reprehensible (Westboro Baptist Church) to the inspiring (the myriad Christians working towards compassion and integration). I think this book is an important one, especially for Christians, and I’ll definitely be recommending it. I feel like I have a deeper understanding of the particular struggle of the gay American Christian and want learn more about how to show real compassion and love and give spiritual support to those who follow Christ. I want them in church with me, not standing out in the cold, and whatever I can do to make them welcome, I will do. We all need each other.

Suburbianity by Byron Forrest Yawn

Synopsis:
Subtitled “What Have We Done to the Gospel? Can We Find Our Way Back to Biblical Christianity?”

Review:
I don’t live in the suburbs but there was still a lot in Suburbianity that resonated with me. I really appreciated the incisive dissection of the way that the American church has taken Christ out of Christianity, a topic that was well-addressed by Michael Horton in Christless Christianity, and which is developed even further here. I felt newly inspired by the beauty and clarity of the gospel, and the way he articulated the truth will help me as a small group leader in my church.

Many thanks to Harvest House Publishers for the review copy.

A Year of Biblical Womanhood by Rachel Held Evans

Synopsis:
Subtitled “How a Liberated Woman Found Herself Sitting on Her Roof, Covering Her Head, and Calling Her Husband ‘Master’.”

Review:
I didn’t think I wanted to read A Year of Biblical Womanhood because it seemed gimmicky and I assumed that the writer was going for snark. But I gradually became turned on to the beautiful, incisive, perceptive, and deeply Christian writings of author Rachel Held Evans and realized I had to make this my next read.

I want all of my friends to read this book so we can talk about how awesome it is. I double dog dare anyone to find fault with Held Evans’s commitment to orthodoxy and her belief in the inerrancy of Scripture. She doesn’t dismiss the hard sayings of Scripture nor does she assume that all Scripture is proscriptive. Instead she goes deep into Biblical exegesis, literary analysis, and theological research in order to find out what the Bible has to say to women.

See Me Naked: Stories of Sexual Exile in American Christianity by Amy Frykholm

Synopsis:
Biographical essays about people whose stories didn’t follow the script they were given by their parents and their American evangelical churches.

Review:
I read See Me Naked after the thoughtful review in Christianity Today’s Her.meneutics blog. I think the very premise will make people uncomfortable and that’s a good thing, because evangelical kids get exposed to a lot of really messed up stuff. Anyone who works with Christian teens really ought to read this book and see that not everyone’s challenges can be met with a platitude or a rule.

After You Believe: Why Christian Character Matters by NT Wright

Synopsis:
Theologian NT Wright’s powerful exploration of the dynamism of sanctification.

Review:
After You Believe just blew my mind. I never thought much about sanctification beyond feeling like I’m a failure because the fruit of the Spirit don’t come naturally to me and I suck at following the rules. According to Wright, a British theologian, I’ve fallen prey to a very common error.

I really can’t do justice to the depth of this book in a short blog post, but basically he says that we should view Christian character as beginning a journey that will continue in heaven. We will have work to do in heaven and we can begin it now. We put on Christian virtue and it will feel funny at first, but the more we put it on (the fruit of self-control), the more natural it will feel and we will be changed, a change that will continue our whole lives and then be completed when we are glorified when we see the face of God in heaven.

I better just give you a quote:

Royal priests are, in short, to work at revealing the glory of God to the world. That is the task of the renewed Temple. But if, as in John’s gospel, the glory of God is revealed when Jesus of Nazareth goes to the cross as the supreme act of Love, then we should expect that God’s glory will be reflected out into the world when Jesus’ followers learn the habits of mind, heart, and life that imitate the generous love of Jesus and thus bring new order, beauty, and freedom to the world.

We are given…the promise that the earth shall be full of the knowledge and glory of God, as the waters cover the sea; we are given the resurrection of Jesus to be the start of that project; and we are given the Holy Spirit to enable us to anticipate the former by implementing the latter. To begin on those tasks does not mean we know it all and can see exactly what needs doing. It means that we are committed to taking the difficult first steps towards acquiring the corporate habits that will be justice-generating, beauty-producing, and freedom-enhancing, and to continuing the many-sided debates as to what exactly those phrases will mean. And, once again, every follower of Jesus will have his or her own unique and interestingly different vocation within this complex overall project.

There is so much more, and I will definitely be reading this book again and again and again.

Spiritual Mothering: The Titus 2 Model for Women Mentoring Women by Susan Hunt

Synopsis:
A study on how to cultivate mentoring relationships among women.

Review:
We read through Spiritual Mothering in my Friday morning moms’ Bible Study, and we all really got a lot out of it. The basic idea is that women grow spiritually both by looking up to women who are older than them, either in age or in spiritual maturity, and that women also grow spiritually by becoming mentors themselves. The book offers insights from the Bible and from the author’s own spiritual journey and those of women she has known, starting from Mary’s visit to Elizabeth back when she was pregnant with Jesus. I especially liked the sections on how to develop good listening skills, because I feel like I can’t ever learn too much about how to know when to shut up!

Taliesin by Stephen R. Lawhead (The Pendragon Cycle, Book 1)

Synopsis:
A princess of Atlantis flees to ancient England where her paths cross with a mage-in-training whose parentage is unknown.

Review:
I was drawn to Taliesin (which I desperately want to be an anagram of Atlantis, but it’s not) because it’s a retelling of the King Arthur legend with historically accurate place names and details, and with the Christianity an important, unoppressive element. Several major characters are converted to Christianity in episodes that are emotionally and spiritually powerful, but Lawhead doesn’t make that the happy ending. He understands that the Christian life is filled with drama and conflict, both inner and outer, and Lawhead doesn’t let his Christian characters have all the answers.

Where I disengaged from the book was with the character of Charis. Charis was proud, fierce, headstrong–all character qualities I normally love–but I think Lawhead romanticized her too much and made her inaccessible. All the men worshipped her but he didn’t give her any qualities that let me identify with her as a woman.

I really liked the character of Lile, the pagan wife to the king of Atlantis. She was a very nuanced character, set up to be the “evil stepmother” but proving to be both friend and enemy to Charis. I really appreciated that aspect. I’m hoping that her daughter Morgiane doesn’t end up being one-dimensional.

As for Taliesin, the bard/mage discovered in a river as a baby, I’m not sure how I feel about him. He’s certainly heroic, but like with Charis I experienced some distance from him. I think he was put on a pedestal by Lawhead and I couldn’t totally connect with his struggles.

I will definitely give the next book a try because these criticisms could just be first book issues. I’ve never read a memorable King Arthur telling so I’m keen to see this one through.

The Marriage Plot by Jeffrey Eugenides

Synopsis:
A semiotics-enthralled English major falls for a manic depressive scientific researcher, while being loved unrequitedly by a religious studies major for whom Mother Teresa is his last hope in a fruitless quest to find faith.

Review:
The best thing about The Marriage Plot is that it’s a fantastic story with characters that I connected with on a very deep level. Jeffrey Eugenides’s other two novels were good but didn’t fire up my emotions the way that this one did.

Now that I’ve gotten that out of the way, I can talk about how intellectually satisfying this book was. It begins in a semiotics seminar just as the discipline broke into literary criticism, in the early 1980s, and raises the key question of whether anything matters outside of the words themselves. To the hardcore semiotician, the answer is “no,” but to any rational person the answer is “obviously!” Eugenides gives us three main characters for whom books infuse every corner of their lives. A text by Barthes causes Madeleine to overthink her feelings for Leonard. Mitchell travels around the world with a backpack full of books he hopes will help him on his spiritual quest: Augustine, Merton, and Teresa of Avila. And Leonard, the philosopher, devours the written word and generates his own.

Intertextually, Eugenides is crafting a story that is both an entrant in and a response to the genre of the “marriage plot,” as exemplified by the works of Jane Austen and the Victorians. One the one hand, he’s conscious of the ways in which marriage is different for us than it was for them–no longer an economic arrangement, founded more upon passion than duty, easier to walk away from–and then gives us a central relationship, between Madeleine and Leonard, in which money matters a great deal, duty calls loudly, and nobody seems to know how to leave even when it becomes clear that they’re making a huge mistake. It’s a lot to think about. At the same time, he makes the connections between his characters so vital and bloody that you get swept up in the narrative and accept their reality as the only one that matters. The stakes matter.

Lastly, the semioticians rejected the idea that outside influences and the author’s intention mattered at all. The joke here is that Leonard Bankhead is based on David Foster Wallace, a contemporary of Eugenides’s and true genius who famously struggled with mental illness. Mitchell Grammaticus is the stand in for Eugenides himself (and read a great article on all this here). You don’t need to know these details to appreciate the story, but if you do you can’t help but be conscious of the way Eugenides is working out his personal demons. And while the semioticians may not care, every writer on the planet knows that you write because of what’s happened to you and how you feel about.

“Make it as real as you possibly can–believe me, you can’t imagine a feeling everybody hasn’t had,” says Pale in Lanford Wilson’s Burn This, in an epigram I give to all my creative writing students. I always puzzle over this line, which seems to make sense on the surface but proves to be a tricky little truism I still don’t completely understand. But reading this book reminds me once again how true it is.